This is a log of happenings for my protection against an abusive spouse. should have started this earlier but.... He hasnt and wont change because he truly thinks its normal behavior. Soon after his arrest, he contacts his family (whom he disowned about 2 yrs ago) telling his elderly mother that he has cancer. Which he doesnt. It ended upin phone calls and text messages over 4 states to correct the lie. When confront with this, no answer as to why it was done. Just angry words again about how the ramily cheated him out of his rightful inheritance. Promise to stop drinking. Broken. I have found freezer blocks, the ones for lunches, melted but cold in a bag with beer wrapper. When drinks hehides in his room with locked doors, refuses to look at people so red puffy eyes arent noticed and worse tells my daughter not to tell mom about his drinking. He has gone off tobuy drug testing kit to make sure pot doesnt show in his system